Dear Bashers, I don’t care…

Hello my friends!

Today’s topic…as if I have been writing everyday with a certain topic…err…scratch that. How about topic of the week? I really need to do something like that, eh? ANYHOOT, let’s talk about bashers! Those in the phone/webchat psychic, tarot, medium world know what I mean. Basically they are those who bash other readers by leaving 1 or 2 stars usually with rude feedback because:

  • They are another psychic, tarot reader, medium who wants to compete & win top spot so they will bash their competitors using another account name to do so.
  • They wish that they had a psychic gift of some sort & are jealous so they demean others that do.
  • They are skeptics & want to test the psychic.
  • They are bored.
  • They want an answer that is what is true in their mind, but hate when it is the opposite so they feel hatred that things aren’t going the way they want them to.

There are probably more reasons, but these are the common ones. True there are some really bad readers out there. That are just in this gig to make money & feel it is easy money. I’m not going to deny that, but most are not. Like me for instance. I am here to help others in their life when it seems confusing. I love using my tarot & oracle cards to guide others in making the changes in their lives to move forth.

Some readers have created a list of names to watch out for certain platforms. All you have to do is google search the platform name and add “bashers” to it and you can find a few webpages that list them & there is a LOT of them.

The dilemma I usually have in regards to these people is that I wonder do I take the chat/call & get the 1 or 2 star with the rude feedback to be shown on my listing or do I just deny & block & still get the loss of points, but no feedback to be shown. No matter what I will lose points. Sad, but true. I always know they are a basher because my psychic senses tingle at me when I see their name dinging at me. Their energy is all over the damn place & I haven’t even started chatting with them yet. I always know. I used to search their names first on the basher lists to see if my feelings were correct & they always were. Yes always…not making that shit up.  So now I search after.

I used to just deny & block the person. Noticed I said “used to”. Now I just do the reading & take their money. The refunds doesn’t come out of my pocket. Plus feedback is comical at times. I know my skills. I know what I am good at & not good at. I know some skills I test out on friends before I have a go in the public arena. So yes I am taking your money for the energy you spent on me & having to deal with you. Either way I am dealing with your energy as you ding in my webchat or call monitor, might as well be compensated for it.

One time I had a 30 minute chat that was just all over the place. The energy was everywhere. No focus what so ever & no matter what I said didn’t please this person. They left a 1 star with extremely colorful feedback. But I got the money as I knew they would be abusive & it didn’t bother me. But that feedback got buried by clients that to this day still come to me for advice. It just gets buried. *POOF* So another reason why…

Dear Bashers,

I don’t care…

The Doreen Virtue Saga

Like the title? Well it seems that there are many who are upset with her and there are those who are embracing her. The Doreen Virtue Saga is about her changing her own religious views and path that she feels fits her life now. Which is fine. Go with it. Ya know.

However some are pissed off at her. Apparently there was a video, now deleted, that was posted that was more harsh into the work she did in the past that she regrets doing. Now I didn’t see this video so I can’t really go with what was said there, however, I can go with what I am feeling.

I understand both sides of this issue, and honestly this wasn’t handled right by her or Hayhouse. It left many confused and I understand that. It was just poorly announced and left many unanswered questions and answers. I did listen to Radleigh Valentine’s radio show titled “Can we all just get along” that had Doreen as a guest. It was to answer all the questions and they did. Many answers I knew from a long time ago anyway. She even answered the rough questions as well. She slapped her name on the tarot decks with Radleigh to help him start off his career. Which, and I agree with her, she really didn’t need to do that as he could have done it on his own. I love Radleigh and his energy is contagious. I wish he could be on every damn day as he brightens mine. He really seems like a very sincere, kind person. Anyhoot, listening to her and him talk was needed. If you believe what was said or not, that is for you and your path and journey.

Me? I did leave Doreen’s page on Facebook and I have yet to do so on Instagram (call it laziness). Not because of her, but of her path. I am not interested in the path she has taken. I respect her choice, but she isn’t in line with what I feel is right for me. Nothing personal and I wish her the best. However, I still employ some of her past teachings into my life because I believe in them myself. Angels and faeries being those teachings. I still use a few of her decks. There are some I bond well with and some I don’t. Ascended Masters is one of those decks I don’t bond with, which she has since stated she is wanting to redo. Sure it may be more “Christian” like and that is OK. I am not going to run out to get it though. I think I don’t bond with it because her purest heart wasn’t into it. I get that way with some decks if the creator just isn’t all for it and it can be felt at times. I still try to work with it from time to time to try to input my own energy in it, like I try with other decks I am not connecting to, but some just don’t click with me. Even though her heart wasn’t into the tarot decks, I still bonded with them because of Radleigh. He has put his heart and soul into them and I knew from the beginning that it was HIS creation not hers. Her name was just put on them to help him achieve success, which was later admitted on the radio show.

Both have stated on the radio show that the certificates that was received from the courses are still valid. They still hold true, even if the path has changed. So if you are wondering about that, it was confirmed.

I honestly feel that many were hurt, felt betrayed, felt used by the bombshell she laid to all and I understand that and can feel that as well. I feel that this was poorly handled as well which led to the confusion, betrayal feelings. But this is a lesson we must all understand. In a blink of a eye, a path can change for someone. Someone may feel they need to change their ways instantly. Even you. Even me. Don’t follow blindly. Know that at any given moment someone can change. Even so, there could be a hint of truth their past, present, and future path may bestow upon all of us. If you still believe in the past teachings or even part of them then so be it. Follow those if they fit how you feel. I believe no path is wrong and will lead all to the right way. Just as long as you aren’t harming others. 😉 Got to throw that tidbit in there.

I will continue to use some of her teachings, not all, that she gave. I will continue to use the decks that I feel a connection with. It will just be how I roll. Some felt she was fake, which I felt that in some points as well, but some points made sense to me. So it is all good. To Doreen, even though I doubt this will be read by her, I wish you the best. Sorry I can’t follow this journey with you, but I know you are following your own truth. Good luck to you!

And good luck to all. May you be blessed! 🙂

Weekly Reading for 08/21/17 to 08/27/17

This week’s reading I am using Crystal Visions Tarot!

Here is your weekly reading for 08/21/17 to 08/27/17.

Situation: 2 of Swords, Reversed
You can finally see clearly this week. It could be the energies of the solar eclipse giving you the insights you need to get out of the rut you have been in for awhile. I think we all have been in a rut in some form or another for a couple of years. This is the time to definitely start on that project. Get the engine going. Make those plans. Work on making progress in your career. This is the time! You are getting the green light so if you have been waiting for that sign…

Challenge: 10 of Wands
Yes I know you have been feeling stressed and over burdened lately with these energies and day to day situations. It is time to cut through these burdens and to take on what you feel is needed and let go of what isn’t. It is time to lighten the load of the stress you and others have put on you. You are only one person. Others need to understand that. Clear away the extra baggage that is holding you down.

Advice: 10 of Pentacles
All this push forward will help create a legacy for a solid foundation. This can be a very prosperous time for you and your family, but you need to take the first steps for it to succeed. You can do this. You just have to let go of the doubts. Create a plan. Watch some youtube videos. Join some groups. Learn all you can to create the life you see yourself in. It is now time! Don’t let this pass you by.

Outcome: 3 of Cups
Celebration! Simply put! You will  be celebrating the accomplishments you have made in this situation. You will find true happiness. You just have to get started and work on making it work for you. Succeed. Have a party for no reason when you make the first success of your plan a reality.

Weekly Reading for 08/14/17 to 08/20/17

Weekly Reading for 08/14/17 to 08/20/17

What can I say? I had to work with the Halloween themed decks today. I am feeling that energy even though I know it is early for it. Still, I feel it needs to be brought forth!  I am using the Halloween Oracle and the Halloween Tarot.

Theme: Barmbrack, Sweetness and Synergy
It’s important to keep your thoughts and energies intact. Looking at only one thing in your life isn’t how you should be focusing. Think of what your choices do for you, your environment as a whole. That is the theme for this coming week. Especially with Mercury Retrograde here. You need to focus and revision your life right now. Don’t be too hasty. Think about what your choices can bring.

Energies Now: Ace of Imps (Wands), Reversed.
You may be feeling scattered and there is no motivation for you to continue on your path. You may feel what is the use of taking charge of the situation when it doesn’t come to your favor. There is no longer a spark in your life and you may be feeling dull.

Challenge: 4 of Bats (Swords)
Resting is important now than ever. So you can clear your mind and work on your path. You may be feeling that this is harder than it seems. Lots of energy going around you, lots of brain activity with thoughts. The need of clarity is needed right now and this is a must thing to do. You need to rest and meditate so you can ground and revision your path to how you want it to go.

Advice: Page of Imps (Wands), Reversed.
This is more of a warning than advice with the last two cards. You need to get this negative, pessimistic thought out of your head that you aren’t good enough or what is the point. It is important that you think big for big things to happen in your life. The moment you start with the negative vibration or attitude is the moment you will fall. It’s understandable that this may seem like a huge task for you, but you can make anything happen. Stop with being at the lower vibration and work on being at a higher one. Be assertive with your needs, wants, desires. If you are rejected, know that is Spirits’ protection for you! Move on to the next challenge.

Outcome:
XIX The Sun, Reversed
OK let’s say you ignored the warning above. What could possibly happen? Well lack of success. Worry. Depression may set in. This is why it is important to be optimistic in your goals and not give up! We need to turn this card around to where there is happiness, there is success, there is a bright future for you! Sitting there worrying won’t help you out. This is why you need to vibrate higher. Create a affirmation to help you be positive. Revision your life and situation. Again, if you are rejected know that is Spirits’ protection for you. It could be love, career, promotions…what have you. You may have thought you really want it, but maybe the time isn’t right or something is better. Maybe you need to be more open to the possibilities in your life. Maybe what you think you want isn’t really what you need. There is always a reason. The more you vibrate higher positive affirmations, the faster and better your life will be. You will flourish!

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New Moon in Leo Intention Plan

Well we have a New Moon in Leo today so I have decided to come up with a spell to do for an “Intention Plan”. I must say that I am in need of this at the moment.

I have felt that I have lost my way, my fire, my passion in some aspects. I am not sure when or how it happened. The confidence that I had has diminished. My boyfriend sees it.

It is mostly because I have been doubting my path. I have sought the council within me, aka my spirit guide tribe, but no answer to this dilemma. It is like I am ignored and in need to find my own way here on this journey. At least that is what it feels like. Meditation hasn’t brought answers. It has been dead silence when I try to converse with my path, but if a different topic seems to emerge, then my spirit guide tribe is all over that shit like a hungry lioness devouring her meal…not knowing when the next may come.

So I have gotten some ideas from a few sources and I am combining the mix. I am using tarot, runes, intention wish list, herbs, and chants to try to bring back the person I lost. The person I miss most, ME!

I have my intentions in my mind of how this next moon cycle shall proceed. It will be a challenge and I am going to give myself each day to work on coming out of my comfort zone. If I can put the effort in, who can’t say I won’t succeed?

I am also testing this out as an experiment as well. If I can make this work for me, imagine what it can do for YOU! I never offer anything unless I have tried it out first. Mostly because I want to make sure it works. As long as an effort is there, why not? If both energies combine, with intention set, where will it lead?

Once I find the answer, I will work with you to make sure you can also achieve your own passions and desires.

Till that time comes…let the experiment on myself begin!

Happy New Moon in Leo everyone!

Weekly Tarot Reading for 06/19/17 to 06/25/17

We are getting hit double time this week! We have the Summer Solstice on Tuesday and a SUPER New Moon on Friday! I thought since Summer brings in the Fairies, that it would be a good time to converse with them for the weekly tarot reading this week! Let’s see what these playful, mischievous, nature beings want us to know!

For this weekly tarot reading, I used “Healing with the Fairies” by Doreen Virtue as the theme and “Fairy Tarot” by Radleigh Valentine & Doreen Virtue for the insights.

Theme: Kick Up Your Heels
Can you even guess the theme? Look good and hard here? What do you see in this card? The unicorn is being playful and having fun! Childlike fun. When is the last time you had fun? Apparently it has been a debate from what the other cards show. Let’s get into that as this week is all about having fun and being playful.

Energy: 2 of Winter
You have been debating on things to do. Should you do this, do that? Is this the right path? You are being pulled in different directions unknown what path to go. What choice would make YOU happy? You can always go a different route you know?

Challenge: 4 of Summer
The answer you seek is RIGHT THERE IN FRONT OF YOU! Are you paying attention? Are you ignoring the signs? Are you asking for a sign and not accepting it? Is ego in your way? More than likely so. You may also seem discontent with life as if it isn’t going as well as you plan. This is where the fun needs to come in. Need to make life more fun.

Advice: 4 of Autumn
You can’t take your money with you and yet you may feel you have to hold on to every damn dime that is in your hands. This is also a sign that you are valuing greed over fun. The advice here is to HAVE MORE FUN! There are ways you can have fun for free. Walking in your neighborhood. Go to the mall and browse. Go to a local beach if possible. Get out of the house and live a little. Feel free and not confined. Really look at the nature around you. Bushes, plants, trees. Just sit on the grass and watch how nature works! Get out and have some fun! Even a few moments staring at the stars at night can help boost you! Empower YOU this week. Have some fun. If it is raining jump in a puddle. Walk in the rain. Bask in the sun for a few minutes. Feel like a kid again and remember that FREE feeling!

Weekly Tarot Reading for 05/08/17 to 05/14/17

Weekly Tarot Reading for 05/08/17 to 05/14/17 talks about coming into your own. Setting out your own journey and accept yourself for who you are.

I am feeling a bit of needing some angelic advice for this week’s reading so I went with “Healing with the Angels” oracle deck and “Angel Tarot”.

Self Acceptance talks about…well…accepting yourself. All the flaws, imperfections you may see are just divine perfections. They make you to be you. Being your true self and acknowledge that you are a wonderful being can help you achieve your highest potential.

2 of Fire aka 2 of Wands talks about setting out on your own. Being your own person. Walking your journey and looking to what the world may have in store for you.

Embrace yourself right now! Let go of fear and embrace your journey. Only you can walk the path. Only you can move forward in your life. Embrace you and look to what the world wants to offer you. This can be with home, career, love…the most important thing is to do what you wish to do and to forgive yourself for what you felt you lacked, but was a blessing in disguise.

Weekly Reading for 05/01/17 to 05/07/17

Weekly Reading for 05/01/17 to 05/07/17

Ace of Pentacles, Reversed
Radiant Waite Tarot
Just because this card is reversed doesn’t mean that it can’t be changed. Be aware of opportunities that present themselves to you. Also be positive for future endeavors. Keep a open mind to ideas that come your way. Reflect on positive financial affirmations. So flip this card upright.

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Weekly Reading for 04/24/17 to 04/30/17

Weekly Reading for 04/24/17 to 04/30/17

This week is about honoring your power and release what holds you back.

The theme XV Lunar Eclipse with Sovereignty from Spirit de la Lune oracle. This is about honoring your power and what you can achieve. Stop allowing your situation to hold you back or make excuses that aren’t in line with who you know who you are.

Energies for the week is 10 of Swords, Reversed. You need to let go of the fear and embrace the light coming forth. The clouds are moving away from the darkness within. Mental clarity will break up.
Challenge is IV The Emperor, Reversed. You lack stability right now. You need to find your structure and path that you wish to take. New moon happens this week so start making intentions to how you want things to go. Make a plan. Put your positive energy into the mix.
Advice is XIII Transformation. Let go. Do it now…let it go. Let go of what is holding you back from your life. Learn to be yourself. Stop trying to please others especially if it makes you unhappy. This is the need to release attachments that are not serving you. To be free. Write down the things you wish to release this New Moon and let it go. Be who you wish. Want to dye your hair? Then do it and be bold! Want to try a new career? Then look into it and work on doing a transition to it.

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