What is My Life Purpose?

This question gets asked by those that want confirmation that they are on the right path.

“What is My Life Purpose?”

Well what do you enjoy doing?
What is your passion?
Search google to see if anyone else is doing what you enjoy doing for a profit.
There…you have found your life purpose.
Seems to easy doesn’t it?

The sad part about this is that the ego of fear comes into play and feels it needs validation from someone else before taking on the task of doing what you love. Then there are those who keep saying “I don’t know.” They don’t take their daily habits that they enjoy doing into consideration. They think it is boring to some, but it can point you to the right career path for you.

If you are an observer, you could be a private investigator, police officer. If you love to help others with advice you could be a counselor, life coach, social worker. If you love to draw or paint, be a illustrator. There are all kinds of ways you can use your everyday skills you enjoy doing into a viable career move.

Write down what you enjoy doing. Google search the topics you wrote down and see if anyone is using the skills you listed to create a career out of it. Find what makes your body shiver and gives you goosebumps. If you have those feelings, you don’t need validation of your life purpose. You found it!

Never doubt it. Don’t listen to the ego. Live your dream!

Wisdom Wednesday: Embrace Your Shadow to End Ego Talk

Now hear me out! Don’t diss this just yet. It is important to embrace your shadow because it can end that ego talk. How? By creating a balance in your life.

Get a sheet of paper and write down everything about yourself you don’t like and have tried to hide. For example, you may crave power, wealth. Manipulate your way to the top! Maybe you fear your true power. Fear your own self. But write down it all. Get it out there in the open. Be real. Be raw.

Now how can you incorporate this in your life that can bring a neutrality to shut the ego talk down? If you notice the more good you do, the more that ego talks and tries to put you down or brings up the negative. That ego is like a child. Wants to be noticed. Wants to be acknowledged. It is also a part of you that needs to be dealt with and talked to. Ignoring it just makes the ego yell louder at you. Sound familiar? 😉 Like a child. Embrace this part of you. Just don’t allow that child to overcome your positive nature.

Wisdom Wednesday: Letting Go

This Wisdom Wednesday I thought I would talk about letting go. Letting go of things that are not serving our higher purpose and goals. Getting out of a horrible job. Finding a better relationship. Maybe even just saying, “Yes I have time to meditate.” Just to let go of something that isn’t serving our highest goals.

For me it is letting go of old business ties. There are things I did to “make money” and honestly it felt nasty, dirty, and I felt that it wasn’t the right way or path for me. So instead, I decided to go with my gifts and talents. Yes, tarot reading is my gift and talent. I am very good at it, make a decent living, and am free of feeling that I am not helping others only hindering them. The air is so refreshing changing my path to something more aligned with my soul. I feel I am making a difference for others in their time of need. Helping them see the light when they can’t see it themselves.

My favorite card to illustrate this point is the 9 of Bats from the Halloween Tarot which is the equivalent of the 9 of Swords. Here is a picture I grabbed online. Look at it and then read below it:

This is a card of grief, despair, insomnia, not seeing the light. If you look on her bed, there is a picture of the Sun. That means there is always tomorrow. You can always change your circumstances if you choose to. You don’t have to wait till tomorrow, you can change them now.

Know that you can always let go and change your path, destiny is yours to take. Never allow others, or yourself, to say otherwise.

In Celestial Love & Light,

Brandy 🙂


Wisdom Wednesday: Self Care

This Wisdom Wednesday I thought I would touch on the topic of self care. Many of us are always TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO (enough O’s there?) busy to take care of ourselves or we are too stressed out to consider ourselves. Why? We take care of others all the time, why can’t we splurge a bit and care for ourselves? Good question! Because we have it programmed in our minds and with the universe that we do not truly matter but others do. Have you stopped for a moment to consider that no one really takes care of us? Maybe the basics, if we are lucky, just never fully. A nice 30 minute bath? Fixing our hair? Getting a haircut? Maybe a once a month pamper session? Instead we are doing it all for others it seems.

It isn’t selfish to want to make yourself feel human, loved, and appreciated even if it only comes from you.

Take some time today and do some self care. You will be glad you did and feel a bit energetic by allowing yourself to receive this wonderful benefit.

Wisdom Wednesday: When You Feel a Change in the Air…

My boyfriend and I felt really strange yesterday. As if there was a change in the air. Something just seemed off. We talked about our day. Mine feeling as if my heart was alive. I don’t mean beating and doing it’s job, I mean it felt ALIVE. As if it wanted to spring out of my chest and be on its own and enjoy life more. Invigorated I guess would be the word here. His day however dealt with really strange clients having the oddest situations and requests. You would think it was a full moon as he said.

These are times where we need to be grounded. Need to get a change of scenery. We had a discussion that maybe we need to explore our surroundings more. Go out, window shop…just something to get out of the house. Go to the park and have lunch. We just need to break free. I have to agree. Sure I love my alone time when I can get it, but in reality I do need to be out more.

Our agenda right now this week is to see about getting a stroller for our son who is 15 months old now. We had one, but it broke due to the age of it. So I am going to get one brand new and explore the world around us. Go to the park, to the mall, just somewhere that we can roam around at. Maybe even through downtown. I think the air will do us good to break free from the day to day life we seem to be on routine for.

If you feel the same way, I suggest to take a moment and visit nature. If you have limited mobility, see if someone can assist you or open the curtains and enjoy what the day brings ahead. Be full of gratitude for this blessed day! 🙂

Wisdom Wednesday: When NOT to Consult a Psychic or Tarot Reader

I read an article today that listed 10 times not to consult a psychic. I thought that the list was definitely true, but there could be much more to be added. Here is my own personal list.

  • When you want to know how someone feels about you. That is like spying on someone’s phone, email or mail. Why not ask them?
  • When you want to know what someone, like your ex, is doing. It isn’t your business. They moved on with their life, you need to as well. Stop giving away your power.
  • When will they call. Remember the Spirit realm doesn’t keep time like we humans do here on earth. Sure some may guess and get it right, but remember time doesn’t exist to our guides.
  • When will you get pregnant. Again see the top. Plus this is a medical question best suited for a doctor.
  • When will you win the lottery.  Again time/spirit issue here. Plus that is a chance game that I don’t even recommend playing. Think of all the negative energy that is being spent to try to win the money and then think about those that DO win and what happens in their life. Consequences of buying into the negative energies.
  • If you are going reader hopping in hopes that they will give you the answer you desire. That means you jump from reader to reader expecting a certain answer to your liking. Go to one and give it 2 months before you ask the same question again.
  • If you are told that you need to spend more money for the results you want. Such as removing a curse. Here is a hint, curses only work if you fear them and believe them. Let go of the fear and live your life. Yes it is that simple!
  • You are too emotionally charged with a situation and can’t think clearly. Your energy is scattered about and the reader may have issues trying to pinpoint your path. Try to center yourself before you get a reading.
  • When you are scared that a reader will tell you something bad. Again scattered energy here.
  • Some don’t like yes/no questions as that is a very gray area. If you were to ask if a ex will come back it could be yes, but will it be in this lifetime or the next? Hmmmm….again maybe you should go on with your life and see what the universe brings you.

I hope this list gives you some idea. I may add to it, but for right now here are the major ones.

Wisdom Wednesday: Be Childlike

This Wisdom Wednesday, I want to talk to you about being childlike. The innocence in exploring new things in life. How it creates the awe of wonder.

Monday night my lil man, Xander, went to stay with his grandmother and aunt for the night. Tuesday (yesterday) we had a snow storm here in Pueblo. I do not like driving in the snow. I don’t mind looking at the wonderful white wonderland that covers the land, but I can’t stand driving in it. Mostly because of other driver. Well, just as fast as we got the snow, it started melting almost as fast. Roads were dry in most places. So I went ahead and drove to pick him up. It is a 20 minute drive to his grandma’s house, but they usually get more snow than us, which was also the same for this day. As I pulled up in the driveway, Xander and his aunt were throwing snow balls. The look on his face was priceless of how in awe he was in this new discovery. He turned one on January 10 of this year. He was just playing in the snow and laughing. He even ate his first snow ball like many of us have done in our past.

As I watched him have fun, it dawned on me how we no longer have that childlike awe anymore. We are always in a hurry or too busy to notice the wonders around us. The magic in our world. We never stop to look at things. We never reflect. We never jump up and down for excitement when we see something we like. It’s like we are meant to have our head in the clouds of life and not notice what is around us anymore. What makes us sing and laugh.

I am going to try to challenge myself at least once a day to enjoy what life gives in excitement. Be happy to smile. To be alive. To see the sun, the stars, the moon. To watch a frog hop or listen to a bird sing a tune. I miss the childlike awe and Xander proved that it is much needed not only in my life, but in yours as well. So put the phone down and look around your surroundings. Find the joy in the moment.

Wisdom Wednesday: We Are One Love

This Wisdom Wednesday I want to talk about love. Not a romantic love, but love as a whole.

I was reading “The Power of Love” by James Van Praagh yesterday and made a revelation within myself.  Which I do recommend reading by the way.

Now what if, we are here to learn to accept and love one another despite our differences? What if in a previous life we didn’t accept others or before we can move on in Spirit we have to learn to accept others differences and love them? No matter race, gender, sexual orientation, disabilities, mental illnesses…we need to learn to love one another. To have compassion and understanding. What if religion was created to try and hinder the process to see if we would just learn to accept no matter what is taught to us?

Have you noticed what happens when we don’t accept others as opposed to when we do?

I’ve always believed we are just souls in a physical body. We may or may not have been able to choose our gender, our race, our sexual orientation…and so forth. Or maybe we did to teach a lesson to other souls who are lost in the journey of accepting all with love?

Why can’t we love each other? What is keeping us from doing this? It seems like it is hard to love, but easier to hate doesn’t it? Hate is a strong word, I know, but lets just think on this. If you are sickened or disgusted by someone, why? Really look deep within. Why does that person disgust you? What would happen to you if you were to love the person, love the soul inside the physical body? How would you feel if you were to put yourself in their shoes?

Many of us don’t think like that do we? Some just have instant hatred and are not sure why. Maybe it is a lesson they must learn? Maybe they repeat these lessons each life time until they get it right so they can move on to the next plane?

Does this concept scare you or does it enlighten you?

What if within the cosmos, in other alien worlds, they are different but LOVE each other and we are the only planet that doesn’t? Like we are the bullying child planet? What would really happen to this world if we LOVE each other no matter our differences?

Makes me wonder…that’s for sure!

So practice love.
If you feel a disgust with someone, try to figure out on your own why? Is it their race? Is it their disposition? Is it their gender? Is it their sexual orientation? Write it down if needed. Dissect the thoughts you have. Try to find the true nature or cause. If you have messages coming within then write them down as they could be part of automatic writing coming from your Higher Self to better understand your current lifetime.
Then try to love that person or group of people.

Welcome unconditional love into your life!

Wednesday Wisdom: My Soulmate is Married!

So you found the person of your dreams…but THEY ARE MARRIED!

This Wednesday Wisdom we will talk about why you shouldn’t get involved with someone who is married.

I had a client a long time ago who believed that she met the man of her dreams, plus there was a strong connection between her and him that she couldn’t place. She declared that this man was her soulmate. The bad news was he was married. She wanted to know when he would get a divorce so they can be together.

This situation didn’t need any type of psychic intervention, but girlfriend to girlfriend advice. First of all do they have kids? Yes. Well take into consideration the wife’s feelings. She either works or is home with the kids. She is drained. She has to take care of their kids and has little time for herself.  So she may have neglected him in the bedroom and he is fishing for lust, not love.

What makes you think he will treat you different if you were the same wife?


You may be soulmates, but ANYONE can be your soulmate. A soulmate is a soul you met in a previous life. Your dog could be a soulmate.  Your next door neighbor could be your soulmate. What it truly sounds like is this person “glamoured” you. If you know the story of vampires, glamour is a power they hold where they use their charm to get what they want or who they want. He could be a psychic vampire trying to get his needs met and not care about yours. I mean obviously he doesn’t care about his wife or his kids. Think about that…

Always put yourself in everyone involved shoes. The wife, the kids, and even him…would you still want to be with him?

Explaining it like this helps a lot of those of you, men included, who are in a situation where infatuation has taken a hold of your mind, heart & soul. Unable to see clearly the situation at hand. You should always look at everything and everyone involved. Even if you made a horrible choice, you can always leave the situation. Just make sure you remove the remains…social media, text, pictures, gifts and so forth. You aren’t worth the headache or heartache!

Wisdom Wednesday: HELP! I’M CURSED!

This is a common request I get. Where one feels that they are cursed or have a curse on them as things never go right. So this Wisdom Wednesday I am sharing with you a way, for free, to get rid of the curse…

Here it is…

Are you ready?

Ignore it!

Yep that is it!

What you thought you had to dance in mashed potatoes while standing on your head chanting a chant of the ancients? LMAO NO! Let me tell you WHY you need to just stop believing you are cursed.

Negative energy, such as curses, cause you to be negative yourself. You put yourself in a negative bubble attracting negative outcomes. So when you think everything in your life is falling apart, it is because you aren’t letting go of the negative. You are too busy focusing on what could or has gone wrong feeling cursed than to just to let go. Look into the positives of your situation.

For example let’s say you got a flat tire. What are the positives in the situation? Well the rim isn’t damaged. You can be blessed and thankful that it happened when it did instead of being in a dangerous situation. Think positive. Try to always turn something negative into a positive. I promise you that once you start flipping your mind over, you will see the change in perspective.

Curses aren’t real. They don’t exist! It is the negative energy we put forth that makes us feel that way.